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The REAL Enemy of Your Relationship!

Relationahip EnemyNobody warns you about it when you make that big commitment.  And years later – when the proverbial  you-know-what hits the fan – mum’s the word.

Friends.  Family.  Mentors.  They all dropped the ball on this one.  Meanwhile your Real Relationship Enemy lurks, silently weaving it’s dark disaster.

But it’s not what you might think …. [Read more…]

What My Husband’s Death Taught Me about Marriage

Gina & Jim BinderAfter 27 years of marriage, my husband died unexpectedly while lifting weights on a Friday morning. The moment I found his unresponsive body, chaos entered my life.

At the hospital, my son and I sat in a private waiting room.  When three medical professionals entered, I knew he was gone.

But since he died, I’ve learned some profound truths about death and marriage… [Read more…]

Forget New Year’s Resolutions: An Exit Interview for the Old Year

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Here we are at another milestone.  Fireworks at the ready.  Party clothes on. Champagne corked. Eyes glued to the big ball.

Helpful people have already inquired about our New Year’s Resolutions: “Do you have any? What are they?” Blah, blah, blah.

In my humble opinion, these are the wrong questions.  Before we think up any resolutions (or revive any old ones), we need to do something super important:

We need to have an Exit Interview for the Old Year.

Why?  Because if we skip this important task, we run the risk of repeating the same tired mistakes indefinitely.  Imagine if a company never asked questions of employees who leave?  Poor practices could run that business into the ground.  Just like our poor choices could destroy our physical, emotional, or financial health, or even destroy our relationships.

So to avoid mass destruction [Read more…]

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